You can draft a prenup without hiring two full‑time legal teams—but counsel is still a smart move in New York. Here’s how couples balance DIY efficiency with legal peace of mind.
When you should lean on a lawyer
- Spousal‑support waivers or complex finances (businesses, equity, trusts).
- Large income differences or prior marriages/children to protect.
- Comfort—having your own advocate reduces stress.
What you can do yourself
- Gather disclosures and decide your goals.
- Use a high‑quality document builder to draft plain‑English terms.
- Bring in counsel for targeted review (not necessarily a months‑long negotiation).
Signing smart in New York
Execute properly before a notary, give each partner time to review, and keep signed originals safe. Good process today avoids problems tomorrow.
Next steps
General information, not legal advice. For specific questions, consult a New York attorney.

